What makes a good relationship better, and while you're at it how can you make it the best?

First love is romantic, then you grow together and decide to marry, soon the mystique become commonplace, and children shifts focus to providing and nurturing together and making a home for the children. Childbirth widens the hips and "couching" adds girth to the waist, then the hair thins and some work frustrations set in - through it all a couple manages to cling to the love they have for each other - but no one's perfect, how do you make a perfect effort at celebrating your love for each other?