Does anyone else have Snobbish, Judgemental Relatives?

I've never had the best relationship with a couple of my Uncles in the past. But what really put me over the top, is when my Dad died, and this one Uncle invites me to his home for a visit sometime, while at the funeral,,and just because I didn't jump at his invitation, he gets pissed, pouts in disgust, and sits off to the side, never to say another word to me again! What a self absorbed a$$hole! Every time I see him or his brother in public, I get the Ice treatment, like it's some form of punishment. This game is getting sooo old! None of us is here forever, so why can't people grow up and get over themselves?!?